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230408 Music Bank - Felix ⭐️

Felix has my entire heart and soul and I wish him every happiness and all the health. He is such a beautiful person, so full of love and kindness… he’s just a good person. like a truly good person. He’s so rare and I adore him. He makes me want to be a better me, just by existing!

you see whenever i dont understand someone's sexuality or gender or pronouns or whatever i go "ohwell this has nothing to do w me!" and move on w my day

If you can't wash it off, paint over it, replace the item, or buff it out, turn a message of hate into one of love!

I would never condone someone to do this discreetly and in mere seconds with a quickly concealed permanent marker, for example on a public bench or bus stop. Certainly not anything like whipping out a tat machine and adding to an unconscious white supremacist's existing tattoo. That would be illegal! :) And, dear followers, I would never encourage you to do something that's illegal.

So, please only use this when someone has defaced your personal property to avoid breaking the law! Because that would be illegal, and following in the law is always in everyone's best interest. :)

.... :) reblogs and even reposts definitely welcome

me, reading my own incomplete writing : *gasp* and then what happened?

Stray Kids music going from "I'm so confused, I don't know who I am or what I'm doing" to "Man I'm GREAT, watch me kill it again at what I do best" is the glow up we all need.

I am once again explaining that in order for walkable cities and public transit to work for disabled people, there also need to be more public bathrooms available in and around those areas. Not just places to sit down or rest. Bathrooms. We need accessible, clean bathrooms. With sharps bins. With multiple wheelchair accessible stalls. With an area to set down supplies needed to maintain one’s body. Even if it’s not being used to get rid of bodily waste, bathrooms are one of the few spaces disabled people have to maintain some sort of privacy when they’re in the middle of a flare up or they need to take medication or what have you. Designing a public space? Include bathrooms.

I have been pregnant, which, for anyone who doesn't know, is basically handicapping your bladder with anywhere from a -12 to -200 ability to hold your pee, at a public event where they explicitly closed the public restrooms to "cut down on the homeless presence."

It was hell. I ended up peeing myself in the car, because they SHUT DOWN the bathrooms in the public transit center too! So not only can I not pee at the event, had to get a ride home bc public transit is crowded, no restrooms either, and the inevitable happened. Living with any kind of incontinence or anything that affects your general ability to go to bathroom, in the current public sphere of NO RESTROOMS EVER BC HOMELESS PPL EXIST? And IF there's restrooms there's no setting down your stuff or anything like that? The WORST.

Its a type of ableism I never really thought about until it happened to me and I'm never gonna shut up about it. Give us all the right to pee (or otherwise) in peace.

Indubitably 🧐

The kids are alright

My constant struggle when writing PWP

Those people who constantly reblog your stuff but you never really talk:

i love laying the FUCK down and sleeping

Reblog to give the person you reblogged it from the energy to do one (1) chore or maybe many

pride month!!!

Is that a miette?

Pride for you!  Pride for a thousand years!!